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Fans express their undying love for Dollie Llama, ThornDaddy, the SUBMISSION & COFFEE podcast, Diary of an S&M Romance, and our kinky free Podiobook.

"After reading Dollie Llama's book, and listening to the podcast for a while, it came to me. You two are normal people. You have fun in a non-USDA-approved way, but I've never heard you talk to each other as if you were trying to imitate the dialogue from 'The Story of O.' By and large you're the kind of people I know and like: smart, witty, a little self-absorbed, and fun. In short, you and Dollie are the Rob and Laura Petrie of BDSM. --Septimus.

"Self-portrait - enjoying Submission & Coffee on iPod"
(Fan art by Vanessa P. of Naugatuck, CT)
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"HE WHO DIES WITH HIS ART ON THE MOST HARD DRIVES, WINS." -ThornDaddy

ARCHIVED Testi-MOAN-ials from SATISFIED listeners (newest ones are at the top):

Hi Thorndaddy and Dollie,

I'm currently playing catch up with all the podcasting you guys have been doing (currently listening to ANCIENT LESBIAN HAND TECHNIQUES). A few of the letters you have read have been about the negativity attached to kink. I'm college-aged, and thankfully haven't gone through the feelings of shame that others have. One of my closest friends and I freely talk about kink, and we are not ashamed that we like to be dominated (and dominate as well, in my case). Podcasts like yours (and others) as well as the internet has de-mystified and de-stigmatized it so that younger listeners (18-25) know it's out there and have the tools & info to do it safely.

The title "COME FOR THE SEX, STAY FOR THE TALK" is so appropriate for your podcast. I think (most) of my favorite parts of S&C are with you two (or more!) talking about stuff. It's stimulation for my brain.

I was thinking while listening to SAC at work, another cool thing you guys do is acknowledge other styles of play as "legitimate". You show us what you do and tell us what you have done in the past. You have the general attitude that as long as it's consensual, fun, and no one is physically or mentally damaged, it's good for whoever is doing it. There is no prescribed "This is what BDSM is."

I'm so glad that your shoulder is healing well, Dollie! Best wishes as it continues to mend.
--Rachel

Thank you ThornDaddy and Dollie for providing us with an opportunity to step inside a world of pure pleasure, pain and purring! This podcast not only gives a wonderful opportunity to listen to a safe and sane couple expressing their consensual love for one another in a BDSM styled relationship, it provides a virtual 'teaching hospital' for those who wish to learn more about the lifestyle. The podcast also provides a platform for light-hearted conversations, listener comments and feedback, hot BDSM lovemaking (with one or more partners) and an array of tips and tricks for the budding Dom/Domme and Sub. Highly recommended!

--S.

Hi ThornDaddy and Dollie, Thanks for the photos! Happy Easter to you both. But i thought that ya'll didn't like the hoildays. But maybe that is just Christmas when people are just so dam happy for no reason. Have a good weekend.
--Daddy's Lil Tarheel.

MMMEEEOOOOWWW!!!!!! Happy Easter to you both! Again, thank you so much for sharing your lives with all of us "listeners"!! So happy to hear about your international subscriber list growing -- wonderful job!!! Keep spreading the joy, and I will faithfully be tuning in to hear the latest episode!
--Kat

Hey there,
Am listening to SM Diary right now and I think it's great. Turned out really insightful and quite compassionate. Loving every minute of it:).

--JJ

To you both,

I'm sorry I couldn't donate more. I'm trying to dig my way out of debt (damn you, credit card companies!) so that's where all my money goes lately. But when I heard about Dollie's surgery, I just had to donate! Even if it was only $5. "

I do want to say a general thanks though. I'm glad you guys put out so many freaking episodes. I can never keep up, which means I always have something to listen to. I love it. I'm another one of these women who listen in their cubicles at work! I love to walk into people's offices with my headphones on and watch them talk to me while I listen to you two (or more) have sex. It amuses me.

And the other thing is that I had this really sexually abusive relationship a few yeas ago, and then a few months later I got raped. (This is going somewhere, I promise. I'm not just sharing TMI.) And I know it's kind of strange, but in some ways the openness and honesty you guys share with both each other and the intrawebz at large is helping me get over my hang-ups and damage a bit.

But things have been a lot better lately. I don't credit it all with the podcast, I've done a lot of soul searching while with the current boyfriend. But I think your podcast definitely plays a part in my healing journey. It makes me realise that one can be sexual and submissive while still being loved and treated well. I love hearing that with you two and it makes me realise that I didn't deserve what they did to me. It wasn't consentual, and it's okay to be dominated as long as it's consentual. (I know, it sounds really obvious, but after 4 years of abuse you stop seeing the obvious! I felt like just because I was submissive in the sack, he obviously had permission to be an abusive prick!) And I definitely think listening to your podcast inspired the soul searching because it made me think about the ex and how the relationship with him was not acceptable and different from the relationship you two have.

I told a kinky co-worker of mine about your podcast. (The only one allowed to know why I'm smiling at my desk.) and if you ever needed to know... I had to tell you how much I like it. I mean, hell, if no one wrote you, you just might think "hey - we're having sex for the internet!" instead of actually knowing you make a difference in people's lives. And you do make a difference. I'd never have made nearly as much progress without you guys.

Loved your band Bomb. Wow! I'm shocked! That was a REALLY wicked cover of Personal Jesus! I listened to the MM version later and it didn't quite sound right, which is why I had to ask. You've REALLY impressed me now! Although I don't know why I'm surprised... I've had the UltraPorn theme song stuck in my head for ages.

Oh wait one more. Would you please tell Dollie that I think she's super hot? Not even kidding. She makes me go PHWOAR!!! And not to leave ThornDaddy out - this is the best dirty talk I have EVER heard, and I think that's MY personal fetish. Even more than being submissive.

Anyway. That is all. Thanks for making me wet at work! And at home! And on the Skytrain! And the bus!

-Kat in Canada

Hello Dollie, ThornDaddy and the pet. Greetings from Australia! Just a quick note to say thank you for providing a fantastic podcast…

My trips on the train to and from work are now filled with much joy listening to your podcast. Wiggling in my seat, smiling to myself and wishing I could broadcast the podcast over the train's PA system,….Oh how many more smiling faces would be heading off to their cubicles if I could!

Dollie, I must thank you for allowing us all into your private world… I address Dollie specifically as she has helped me and I am assuming many other women 'open up' sexually in a way that I don’t think we would ever would've had an opportunity to if it wasn't for your podcast. The first time I heard a 'bed cast' I entered a world where I listened in quiet awe - to a woman openly and freely expressing her body’s natural reactions to the beautiful act of lovemaking in its purest form. Being raised in a religious environment (Catholic), I was taught that our body's sexual reactions were things that needed to be controlled, squashed and restricted at all times. By listening to the way Dollie’s (and the pet's) body respond to Daddy’s touch, I have now learned that it is OK to moan, gasp, cry out in pleasure and be free to express myself openly in the bedroom, without fear. Thank you Dollie, I feel a whole new chapter of my sex life beginning, one where I can truly blossom into a woman.

I first got into your podcast by downloading and listening to "Diary" on an eight-hour flight to Japan. It provided a much needed respite from the dreary standard airline drivel they call 'entertainment'. To say I was 'entertained' on my flight is an understatement! I will most definitely be submitting a review for "Diary" and the Podcast.

Thank you all once again and I look forward to the next awe-inspiring episode.

--Sienna, Sydney Australia

Hello!! I am a subscriber of your podcast, Submission and Coffee. I've been listening for... hmm a few months? Don't actually keep track. I have the ones that I love the best saved on my computer, and I listen to them several times. Unfortunately, I've been very sick lately, and not well enough to grab my laptop and mess around with the wi-fi all day. So I haven't been able to listen to your podcast as of late. :( But I will be catching up very soon... as soon as I get all of the new ones downloaded.

I love a lot of the issues that you talk about, and my favorite episode is the cum crying one... although, do you have a cold Thorn Daddy? Every five minutes you sniff... Soooooo back to what I was saying: Love how you talk about sex, politics, life, your band, the cats, and lots of other cool stuff.

And you have touched a lot of people with this podcast, especially for that woman who went from domme to sub. I actually started to cry as well when I heard about what happened to her fiancee. Also with the switching the woman in the letter was talking about... switching is a very hard thing to do. I am a submissive bisexual female, but time to time I become dominant. It's very hard to live with a personality like that, and my last master/boyfriend, was 95% dom and 5% sub so I got to experiment with my dom side... a little.

About the book, I realized how much I am not alone in this life of BDSM when I listened to it. I have a lot in common with Dollie and her growing up, it makes me smile that I am not actually that crazy as I thought I was.

Now, allow me to gush about Dollie. Love her legs. Love her voice. Love how fluffy and sweet she is. I just want to cuddle up to her. :3

Please write me back!
Mika

Just to give you two an update from my last email - I have found out that I will receive my collar next week. My Daddy does not give them lightly, and so it means even more to me. I am ecstatic. I listen to your podcast each day (I am catching up on older ones) to keep me in the right frame of mind, and I have absolutely no doubt that what I have picked up from them has made the collaring come sooner than it otherwise would have. Things said in them gave me the chance to think more about who and what I really am and gave me confidence. Thank you so much.

--Dommegurl

Thank ya sir:) I finished Plump Buffet and found it to be a great deal of fun. I'm on to Diary next, I didn't know you had it up there for download. Looking forward to that one.

--James in Australia

Hi Dollie

I wrote to the both of you recently to thank you for bringing the fun into my sex life with my long term boyfriend. When I wrote, I was the dominant person in the bedroom, but this has since changed. I wanted to know what it was like to receive what I was dishing out so I asked him to dominate me. O MY GOD!!! Things have never been better! I couldn't believe that I would like being submissive more, but it's true. Our play left some awesome marks on my ass (I bought a riding crop for the occasion), which brings me to the purpose of this email. You wanted to hear from others what it is like to bear these love-wounds.

I love it, my heart skips a beat whenever I sit down and feel that ache and remember when it happened. I wear it with absolute pride and look forward to our next play-time even more. And I keep checking it out in the mirror too, and was sad when the first ones started to fade, but plenty more where that came from! Sitting down has almost become foreplay, YAY.

I love how writing an email at work makes me look busy, as long as I keep a serious face, no-one knows what I'm up to, or what's in my headphones. Hehehe.

All the best
Rebecca
Australia

Hi Daddy and Dollie, I have hear of the book, it's in my to listen to list at podiobooks, that's actually how I found your podcast, and I've also looked through your learn pages, lots of awesome information, thanx. L-O-V-E the first bedcast and hope there is more to follow, have to say this was the first episode I really truly and totally enjoyed, I laughed more than anything but hey I was working my ass off at the time. Anyhow I do have a bit of a question, and I hope questions are OK....

BTW tell Dollie she has the most amazing voice in the podiospere. cheers,
--lynxhoney

Just a note to wish you well in Dollie's recovery, although with your "maid service" I think you are well off.
--Zaroc

subject: Thanks to Dollie.....

Hi!

I have been practicing BDSM for the past three years or so. I became engaged to a man in the Army, and two months later he told me that his dream was for me to be his Mistress, 24/7, and he wanted to be my slave. I read up on everything that I could, interviewed people in the lifestyle, and started practicing (nonsexually on my part) on subs. Then, sadly, my fiancé was killed in Iraq.

I continued taking in subs but found that I was receiving no real satisfaction other than that of getting into someone’s head and getting them to reveal more to themselves than they ever had before. I started wondering if I was a switch.

I found a Daddy that understood me well. We became friends first, then moved into real time. I do believe that there is a special One for some people, and happily I’ve found exactly who makes me feel whole.

There have been rough times – for the most part because it was hard for me to feel like I could give enough of myself to truly BELONG to someone. In the first chapter of your book you covered a point that I was having a very hard time with. I was so concerned with whether He was happy, and could I possibly make Him feel as good as He makes me feel. You said, basically, that the Daddy is happy when the slave is doing whatever He asks, willingly and with proper attitude. I know how to go through all of the motions, having lived both sides, but I was projecting my lack of fulfillment as a Domme to how He must feel with me. Hearing what you had to say put everything into a new light.

Since then I have also subscribed to your podcast and find that it really makes me feel good inside. I understand completely the power of such simple phrases as, “good girl”, or emails signed “ur daddy”. It is so nice to know that there are others out there that have the same basic feelings that I do even though we may live out our dreams in slightly different ways.

With the increase in self-confidence, thanks in part to your podcasts, I have quickly become my daddy’s favorite pet and am soon to be collared. Our relationship grows closer each week, and it is so nice to know that He is proud of my vanilla advancements. I am 47 years old, and for the first time in my life feel truly appreciated. Listening to your words helped to make the transition from Domme to slave much easier, and soon I will be given permission to change my orientation on Collar Me as a reward. (The delay has been for the dual purpose of keeping the wolves away and because my daddy is so proud that he could touch the heart and soul of a Mistress in such a way that she would crave to belong to Him.)

Thanks again I really appreciate your hard work as I am sure that many others do.

Dommegurl

Hi TD, I am listening to S & C 115, where you were annoyed by distant hip-hop. Just as a thought, in places here in Australia. Crocodile Dundee was right. Less than 100 square kilometres is a hobby farm. The nearest neighbours are an hour’s drive away. Good internet connections are a problem out there though. It is satellite feeds or nothing.

On another topic, I find myself in the unusual situation of being unable to keep up with the podcasts. You are making them faster than I can consume them, even when I ignore every other podcast I normally listen to. J You guys are amazing.

Maid, I hope you give your Master some extra loving for allowing you to play with TD and Dollie. I have sure enjoyed your presence in their house.

Cheers to all,

Wolfpup

Hope your surgery went well. You three make my day at work go sooo much faster!! Hi Guys!

Body: I've been listening to you guys for about a year now. You guys have such an awesome relationship and I think it's so great that you found each other. I've been trying to get my husband to give a 24/7 Ds relationship a chance and he's just not into it. I live vicariously through your podcast. Also, I just listened to the Penelope episode and that's another thing I can't seem to find. It sounds like you all had so much fun! All I want is a cool girl to have a threesome with... And for my hubby to treat me like a dirty little cumrag. Is that soooo much to ask? GRRRRR...

Love the podcast, love Dollie's orgasms, your cat's purrs, the sound of crazy-messy-sex while I'm at work and ThornDaddy's nasty talk. And I can't believe you guys are quoting me :D I feel so honored! To tell you the truth I didn't even think you guys would respond. I just wanted you to know how much I love the work you do and thank you for sharing your life with us kinky folk ;) I'm so starstruck right now.
--k

Hi you two! You crack me up!! The Plump Buffet still has me giggling, alongside the Mother and Fuckers song still stuck in my head.

I am going to send you some money just cuz I like you and want to support Dick's world domination. :) I will send it through Podiobooks.com so I can support them as well.

Dollie, hope you are on the road to recovery!

Take Care,
Super A

ThornDaddy replied: Thanks! I tried to write you back on MySpace, but my network is running so slow because of all the little Torrents flooding out of my house that it kept timing out. MEW!

I just wanted to say "thank you" for doing what you do...i don't even remember how i came across your audios..I am a submissive still learning and I have been listening to every one you have!! I have learned so much from you guys and have become a better Slave for my Master....Please keep doing what you guys do!!!! I am sending everyone I know to your site!!

I would be honored to be on your podcast. i have built a webpage dedicated to my master on IMVU chat and everyone knows me as Submissivexxx Yes you may use my letter by all means..I have been running a group on IMVU called "Safe place for Subs and Slaves". i would love to put a link to you all there if that's OKwith you. I get a lot of questions about the lifestyle and your VERY informative...as well as enlightening...I know a lot of the girls would love to hear your shows.....Well have a sexy night I'm definitely going to listen to the book......Thank you very much....

--Submissivexxx

Hi Dollie, hi Daddy,

First of all thanks for all that wonderful podcasts. I'm now hearing Dollie's book. All I can donate are some inspiring pictures of my wife. We live a top/bottom relation. The inserted item is a 7cm (3inches) long piercing with a 8mm ball at it's end :)

Were you get Dollies shoes from ? I got my slut's pumps at www.pierresilber.com and www.howcool.com, but items get really expensive when imported to us in Brasil (sort of 1/5 of my monthly salary as a senior engineer for the 6-inch pumps), so the "selection" of shoes for her is very limited (2 pairs so far). But we balance it with creativity (like the piercing or the speculum, I fuck her with the speculum inserted and spread).

I'm finishing the hearing of the book tomorrow (and began yesterday). It's really a beautiful love story. I'm inclined to compare it with a mixture of love story, independence, punk rock and BDSM. loved the Sex Magic interpretation of SM. Hope you're fine and that Dollie find it's way to serve you enough. I feel like I want to share the book with my wife, but she woud not understand half of it, because it is in english. Do you plan to have it translated into Portuguese? May I help?

Impressive the reading of Dollie's appologie letter. It would NEVER feel so deeply in writing (by reading the printed book) than it was with Dollie reading it. I got in tears while listening to it.

I also really hope her shoulder is better after the operation and that she recovers well.

Regards
EdyMonster

PS : Don't you have foreplay ? It sounds strange that you say "Cum for Daddy" and Dollie almost immediately begins to have an orgasm. How this works?

Dear TD and Dollie,
Longtime listener, first time writer. First off, lots of healing thoughts and wishes for Dollie as she recovers from her shoulder surgery. My subbie and I are wishing her a speedy recovery and that everything heals fine.

Just wanted to send a brief note that we are participating in the BitTorrent push for Submission and Coffee. I downloaded all five zipped podcast archives and as soon as the torrents were downloaded to one of our computers, I've shared them out as Thorndaddy requested. Unfortunately we can't devote full-time bandwidth to the BT effort, but we're having the torrents available as we can. As we both are financially constrained at this time, we wanted to give something back to the two of you for sharing your lives with the world, and making a dramatic and profound impression on the lives of people everywhere, kink or vanilla. Your work has touched our lives and our hearts, and for that, we both wholeheartedly thank you, and hope this small effort helps spread Submission and Coffee wisdom throught the universe.

All the best to the Thorndaddies--kitties, hedgehogs, and all...
Skip and m

ThornDaddy and Dollie Llama,

I was given the book Diary of an S and M Romance by my Daddy and it has changed everything that I believe, think and feel surrounding myself with the D/s and slightly S/m relationship. Reading the book I finally felt the guilt of what I had thought was an unhealthy perverted mind slide off. I came to realize that I was normal in a kinky way and that there is nothing to be ashamed about. Dollie in reading your book I have been given the proverbial nod to embrace my submissive kinky self. Today I am someone who is proud as a women and a submissive, here to serve my Daddy in whatever way possible. For the first time in my life I have shaken off the cloak, and stepped gracefully and submissively into the life and relationship that has forever changed my life.

Thank you Dollie Llama and ThornDaddy for your ever present Submission and Coffee, full of wisdom advice, and fun scenes to try. Though I am not currently a member of the Floppy Golden Disk of Redemption, I hope to make a donation in the near future. It would be an honor if my letter was read on Submission and Coffee.

Daddy's Lil Tarheel

Written with the permission and at the request of Daddy

P. S I love The Plump Buffet because I'm plump myself!

ThornDaddy wrote: this is a short excerpt from her essay in the "win the Plump Buffet script" contest. She won. We will read the whole letter on SAC 113.

ThornDaddy and Dollie Llama,

Daddy's Lil Tarheel

Written with the permission and at the request of Daddy

P. S I love The Plump Buffet because I'm plump myself!

ThornDaddy wrote: this is a short excerpt from her essay in the "win the Plump Buffet script" contest. She won. We will read the whole letter on SAC 113.

Hi ThornDaddy,

You don't know me; I became aware of your site this past weekend when I was checking Pirate Bay for BDSM resources, and downloaded the first of the torrented mega-archives. I found the shows so pleasant, I went to the askdollie.com site and downloaded the other four archives directly, and have shared the first two ever since, with my bittorrent client. I just thought I'd volunteer to share the other three archives, when you're ready to create *.torrent files for them.

With that said, I want to express my pleasure at the tone and content in your and Dollie's podcast. I am pretty much a rank n00b when it comes to BDSM topics; I know a lot of the terms and have a few friends (not local) who are into the lifestyle, but for me it has remained a matter of "well, that's interesting" until recently.

I had been concerned that being a Dom would require me to pretend a stern and bossy demeanor, but listening to a few of y'all's podcasts settled my mind on the topic. If one can be a Dom and still say "Yay!" as much as you do, then I can probably ease myself into the role.

Thanks,
Vanilla Ed

Insane, dude. I didn't know such things existed. A new window of possibilities...creatively speaking.
Thanks!
Best,
Chris

re: Plump Buffet

I loved it! I could only check out the first episode, since I'm currently at work. But I was hooked after only listening to the first minute of it. Using the characters as cats works purrrrfectly. The puns and innuendos that you can get away with, genius. Anyway, I won't take up anymore of your time. Thank you so much for creating such wonderful art. I really appreciate it. And I'm forwarding Plump Buffet to all of my friends and family. Then I'm going to check the rest of it out as soon as I get out of this cubicle!

--Tony Ynot

re: Plump Buffet

ha!!! that is fucking hilarious! the images of those damn cats in my head trip me out..... I will pass this along...

-Brian

re: Plump Buffet

I just pee'd myself. Fucking hilarious.

- Tony T.

(from some 41-year-old married woman in Nebraska named Gloria):

Subject: new to your podcasts

Are you serious? I've only heard one so far. You're eating cereal while doing the podcast. None of this is interesting. I thought it was supposed to be some sort of an interview?

"Cum for daddy", what was that about? Sickening. Aside from the fact it sounded as phony as could be.

Do you ever listen to your own podcasts to see how they sound to people?

(ThornDaddy commented: I know this is not a "satisfied" listener, but it's our first "you suck" e-mail in a year and a half of producing 110 episodes, so I had to share it. We have 2500 happy listeners, so I think those odds are pretty good.)

OH MY GOOSH!!! MEOW!!! You guys are fantastic. I have been listening to S&M Romance and your podcasts since December. I am hooked - I can't wait for a new podcast!! I have started listening to Plump Buffet and love it also. All of this praise comes from a totally vanilla person, who lives a totally vanilla life but I sure am turned on with your story!! Keep up the great work. Best of luck Dollie on your surgery. I hope you guys make tons of money doing this because you really do rock.

--Kat

"Wow!" was my first reaction to this book. Not only is it sexy, loving, and a bit informative for us Vanilla folks, it is powerful. At least it was for me, I connected with Dollie and her situation really quickly. I fell in love with their story, i hope that one day I can have a relationship with as much love and respect as Thorndaddy and Dollie have in this book. After listening to this book I craved to know more about these two, so I found their site www.askdollie.com. Wonderful and informative. Thanks for letting the world know that life is not so black and white.

--Ericammm

ThornDaddy and Dollie Llama -

I've found and become enthralled by your podcast and audiobook/book. Not but a few weeks ago, and am eagerly looking forward to buying your book in the /very/ near future. I'm sure both of you know what it's like to have kept such a lifestyle, thoughts, ideas, and interests private. The majority of the world doesn't exactly see things through translucent eyes, to far fogged over by ignorance, prejudice, and quite honestly fear of themselves.

The both of you are very experienced, very in love, and quite honestly both extremely wonderful to each other. It's so obvious in each podcast, and the way you two put so much emotion in your book, I was moved beyond words.

I can't tell you how happy it makes me to see such devotion in a sub and such dedication in a Dom. You two very simply show how meaningful, amazing, and brilliant a deep s&M relationship can be. Both of you are beautifully brilliant and amazing, and I can't thank you enough for doing as your doing.

ThornDaddy,
I have to say, I have the most respect for you and I hardly even know you. And to say such a thing to me is big, my respect is not easily earned. I've listened to your music and your a amazing artist, your dedication, control, love, patience, connection, spirituality in everything you do, and with your wife is moving, much more then moving. I belive you are a very respectful Dom, and I believe anyone who thinks otherwise doesn't take the time to see just how much more to the life, the heart, and the world you two put in such a dark life.

Dollie Llama,
You have a amazing and beautiful voice, as I heard you both recite and do exerts of e-mails and portions of your books. Your words brought within my own heart your feelings, fears, wants, desires, love, connection and 'needing' to be fully and totally devoted and owned by your Dom, your Daddy. I can only hope that when I do find my own true sub, that she has the same grace, beauty, soul, and dedication that you put into your devotion and serving to your Daddy. You two are truly perfect for each other.

- Morhion

Dear Daddy & Dollie,

My master and I love The Plump Buffet! It's great. I'm actually driving to Chicago from Orange County at the end of this month and I wont have Internet access for 5-7 days. I was wondering if the finishing chapters will be available before then?

P.S. I pray, Dollie, You'll have a safe n' speedy operation/recovery. And congratulations again on The Plump Buffet.

--Brieana

Quick note to say...I loved your first Podiobook "Diary of "an S&M Romance". That book made me fall in love with your relationship. And every now and again, I check the website to see how you two are doing...I am sorry to hear about Dollie's shoulder. I hope all goes well. I believe you deserve more then I have sent but I will hopefully be able to send more so those squittens don't go hungry. My squittens send love to her and mew for her good health to return.

Take care, --Erica M

Hey I just caught you guys for the first time on a podcast over my iPod. It was awesome! I learned so much from you, Thorn Daddy, about how to be a Dom. I never thought that listening to 2 people having sex over headphones could be such a turn on. I am looking forward to listening to more “soul sex” again soon. I love the whole ass fisting concept. I might have to try that out on my girl sometime. I want to have her listen to this when she gets home tonight. By the way, I love the music. Where can I find more of Mother and the Fuckers?

--Matt

Plump Buffet!
hahaha! what can i say. brilliant! that is some funny shit. like to see that made into a cartoon or a comic or something. even though its nicer and more soothing listening. by ear. and so forth.

i might try and illustrate it or something. if you dont mind. anyway, thanks for the listen!

Jesse S. Ex, Victoria, Australia

Hi Thorndaddy and Dollie

I've been listening to your podcast for the past few weeks while at work after listening to Diary of and S&M Romance. It has been so mind opening for me and I'm finally realising what it is that makes me 'tick' in bed. After listening to your inspirational podcast, my boyfriend and I had the best sex that we've ever had in the 7 years that we've been together. I would never had dreamed that I could find the courage to tie him down, slap his face and call him a filthy man-whore not fit to touch a woman, let alone that he would LOVE IT, and he certainly did. It has opened up a broad new horizon for us that we are keen to explore deeply and I'd like to dedicate that session to you both with the greatest humility and admiration for what you have done for us.

I would love to make a donation to the Operation Dollie fund but I do not have a credit card to use the PayPal system. Is there any other way I can do this?

I wish Dollie all the best in her upcoming operation and wait, as always, eagerly refreshing iTunes to get the next installment.

With respect and awe,
Faithfully,
Rebecca
Melbourne, Australia

I just finished listening to the Plump Buffet Podiobook first three chapters. Absolutely wonderful. Funny and sexy. It made me wish I’d taken my boss up on the offer for a private office… and that I’d brought a spare pair of panties to work, as mine are a bit damp now *blush*

I have to admit I got a bit jealous about the thought of working in a video game company cubicle farm. I’ve been a long time online gamer and for years wanted to work for Sony as an EverQuest GM *giggle *

I can’t get to the site from work, but I’ll try to pop online and add a review on the podiobooks website tonight. Can’t wait to hear more, and I hope you’ve considered someday making an animated movie. I think it would be a huge hit. J

--Kitiara1970

Plump Buffet Yay! Wow....I love it!! Thanks for the glorious play...thing...!

Brittani

Listened to the first chapter of Plump Buffet on the way into work--brilliant! The most pleasant drive time I've had since, well, since the last time I listened to one of your podcasts. Went by fast, but I pulled into the garage just as it was ending, and I had to hit "pause" real quick so that the guards wouldn't hear! :) Ha!

-- Ronnie James Iommi

Re: "THE PLUMP BUFFET"

I've just listened to the first episode...sounds -oddly- familiar..Hm ^_~...Anyways, its amazing so far. Funny, smart, and oh yes, let us not forget purringly sexy! ^_^ I can't wait to hear the rest of the episodes! Y/you've made the catgirls of the world, such as myself, very proud -and turned on!- with the play!

--Aurora

Re: "THE PLUMP BUFFET"

This stuff is pure genious! And I'll never ask for a glass of water in quite the same way again.

Again, this shit is brilliant! It would make a great animated feature.

--Birdmite

I was listening to your home soundproofing efforts the other night while working until 3AM rebuilding a server. Thanks for helping to pass the time, and sub_goddess looks great in her new SAC "slut slapper" undies.
-- goddess_owner

Regarding Submission and Coffee (especially episode 100!): God I wish I could listen to this at work. Finished my work in record time. If I could pipe it through an intercom I think we could all work from 9:30 to 12:30 and take the afternoon off to go home and fuck our respective significant (or insignificant) others.
-- Ronnie James Iommi

By the way, and not directly from you, but because we've learned from you, I'm gong to collar Ray tonight. He can't wait, but I told him he had to wait since we got our confidence from you, and he had to listen to the whole 'cast before he could get his. He's about killing for that collar now, and there's only another 2 minutes left in tonight's 'cast!!!

--Tracie

Great book!!! i couldn't put it down! It's like you are a nosy neighbor peering in through the curtains............... If only we all had communication like ThornDaddy & Dollie. The writing style is so approachable and so endearing, you feel as if you are right there with them. Even if you are not in the S&M lifestyle you will gain a new sense of respect for a wonderful couple. And feel warm and fuzzy all over!!!!!!!!!

--slavezelia

'Review of 'Diary Of An S&M Romance'

When Ray and I first got together, we played at s/m in a very amateurish way...sometimes awkward, often confused. There was a even a time that our difficulty discussing the matter frankly almost tore us apart, even though we loved each other dearly and wanted to play as passionately as we loved.

Then one night, a miracle happened...

Just for fun we did a random Internet search for 'BDSM Podcast' and found Daddy & Dollie's creation. Ever since then, we have been sharing a chapter a night, and learning how to REALLY talk frankly about BDSM. Our play is now fearless, and our love just grows stronger with every session, because we have a loving foundation upon which to beat the crap out of each other (lol), And a pair of VERY educated voices to guide us in a new journey...and for you newbiew reading this, it's no joke: We love the whip, but we also touch each other's souls, and knowing what Daddy & Dollie know has only made us grow stronger in our bond to each other.

For those who are new to the BDSM Universe, you have found the best place to learn. It's tough, but honest, and no punches will be pulled. (And isn't that why we came here?)

And for you Pro's, you won't be disappointed either! ENJOY!

O.k. ThornDaddy and Dollie. Hope that's of some use. My reviews aren't my strong suit, although I've done them before. Now it's onto number 104, and a good night's rest after that.

For the record, Ray is DYING (not liberally, lol) for the next 'cast. They drive him nuts, and he does EVERYTHING I tell him in anticipation of them, lol.

--an S&M Couple

Hello both of you nestlings,

So I have been listening the podcast now for almost a year. Obviously I really enjoying your talks and stuff. I think I am now enjoying the talks more then the sex. Do I need to turn in my perv card?

The other thing that got me to write long-winded style is that my fiancee gave me her old iPod. So I now can listen to you two (and some times three) on the road. I have been doing a lot of catching up listening to you guys on the Muni, on the BART, and a little bit on the Cambridge UK buses. (Did I mention she's English?)

So in this mad in flux of Sub and Coffee I heard you mention that you've only been a kinkster for a couple years. I am blown away by this. I have been kinkish for years. Tired to tie up my second girlfriend a long time ago. Hosted a fetish club night in Chicago. But here you are the authority that you are. Part of this comes from "getting it" fairly quickly, and part of it comes from your ability to preform in general.

Bottom line, I like you guys, and I thank you for sharing yourselves. I've taken a lot from it.

--Psychokitty

ThornDaddy and Dollie Llama -

I recently discovered your wonderful podcasts and LOVE THEM. I am a 34 y/o married female who loves the idea of being in a D/s relationship. My husband does know this but doesn't know where to begin with me. The ideas and thoughts stir something in me especially the bondage aspect and wanting to serve and please. Please continue the good work and any ideas of how my husband can venture into learning?

I subscribe to your podcast and just finished listening to Diary of an S&M Romance... I LOVED IT....it was so open and honest....

Enclosed is a picture....hope you like it. Wish i could send you all a pair of my panties from when i am done listening to you...i get really wet...

I posted this on iTunes: This is an eye-opening and informative podcast. If you look at the title and think it is all about sex and smut you are missing the message then. ThornDaddy and dollie chat about everything under the sun. They clear up the common "snob" attitude about submission and really educate. It is not for everyone and they are not claiming it to be. Their simple education and view of how a relationship can work for two people involved in the lifestyle is wonderful. I enjoy their candor and applaud the openness especially from dollie. She has an emotional side that she isn't afraid to show and explains how ThornDaddy is her "TRUE LOVE".

--sassy green eyes.....

ThornDaddy replied: Thank you so much for the offer, but I'm already swimming in wet panties over here!

Hi there.

I absolutely LOVE the podcast. I download it to my iPhone and it's the only thing that keeps me sane while I'm stuck in this cubicle farm (aka office). Although I'm sure they're all sick of seeing me walking around with my headphones on LOL.

Thank you so much for sharing your life with the world. We truly do appreciate it.

Kitiara1970

My ex-boyfriend/ master Leif told me to down load your podcasts. all i can say is WOW. he taught me a lot about the dom/sub lifestyle. but i'm still learning. He has emailed you also. i just wanted to say hi and i haven't been this turned on in a long time. thank you.

i hope Dollie isnt in too much pain and i hope she is healing well. hugs and licks to you both.

Donna

Love the podcast! My hubby just bought me some Submission and Coffee goodies to "support your habit", as he put it. I can't wait to find out what I got.
--His_sub_goddess

i love your podcast and your book, can´t wait for the next one :-). I heard about your new website stuffonmyslave.com, it immediately reminded me of a picture my Daddy took of me last year. It might be a bit too pornographic but i thought i´ll send it anyway, hope you´ll like it.

Lots of love and i hope all goes well with your operation Dollie,

I did listen to your Podiobook, it is so very cool, very informative as well as touching and it made me think about my own relationship. I usually listened to it at work and it made me miss my Daddy so so so much because unfortunately we don´t live together. He is in England and i am in Germany and right now i have to wait 'til march before i can go see him argh. Can´t wait untill we live together. Anyway, keep up the fantastic work guys, i´ll try to do a review as soon as i have a little more time and can find the right words.

--Christina

ThornDaddy replied:

Love the photo! I put it up HERE. Used the little "happy bondage hedgie" censor to protect your special bits (and protect us: to keep it kosher with US law.)

The photo is beautiful, and it's art. Should be in a museum, but instead it's just my computer desktop image. Amazing! Thank you! And....since you were the first, and since it's so great, you made the Golden Floppy Disc of Redemption!

Hey, I just want to say great work on the podcasts and I hope Dollie's Surgery goes well and the recovery is fast. Also, I'm glade Charlie is well

The "Fuck the Super Bowl" episode was awesome. I slept through it (the Super Bowll) personally. My master and I listened to your episode together. It was so funny when you said slaves should ask permission before contacting you and Dollie. I hadn't the first time I wrote to you but told him I had. Anyway, he turned and looked at me with a smug smile on his face, and I (playing around) told him I didn't need "His" permission to talk to you... which in turn, started a wrestling match and progressed into a great "scene"... THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THAT!!! We'd been in a rut and both needed it badly.

Your Podcasts have helped so much. I was so worried our relationship was going to end but after listening to you and getting Him to, we've been talking more, playing more, and Loving more... With the Wonderful (and Talented) Dollie as my Teacher/Guide, I am learning new/better ways to serve him, and communicate with him in a submissive yet equal way, without it seeming like I'm attacking. I'm also growing into and more comfortable with my submissive side. She also shows him how I (as a slave) can feel; How a simple word or gesture can hurt terribly or make sooo happy and honored.

You've helped a lot too. You show me how Doms think; How they can feel guilty (how they show it) for causing pain whether it's not enough, too much, or even just right; How having someone how loves and cares for you sooo much and would do (almost) anything for you, can be startling, scary, and even overwhelming at times. In short, you've helped me learn to read and understand my master's feelings and where they're coming from. You've also showed him how to express himself better, encourage and "praise" me for a job well done, and (most importantly) showed him that I'm a "human" too and need to know and hear that I am Loved, Cherished, and Respected! I finally realized that he DID see my submission and love as the wonderful gifts they are.

THANK YOU SOOO MUCH THORNDADDY & DOLLIE!!! You guys are the best!

Love, brieana

Dollie replied to ThornDaddy about this:

Dunno if it's just the way I am, or if my defenses are down, but that made me cry, it was soooo beautiful. Daddy, I can't get over how much people say we're helping them - can't wrap my head around it - just seems so big and amazing. I am so very lucky to be under your tutelage and guidance.
Thank you.

humbly and awestruck,

--Dollie

Hi Daddy and Dollie

I am writing you to ask if gifts can be donated too? I can also send you cash over Paypal but I would much rather give you something that isn't as impersonal. I have been stealing from you since some time in the fall. I have already listened to your first Podiobook, and the Constitution of the United States, and Dollie reading the BDSM article for spoken wiki. Oh, and the Declaration of Independence. Now I'm looking forward to the adventures of Dick and the Dollies.

Now that poor Dollie has the bad rotater cuff I can't help feeling particularly guilty about it. Also, I worry about the cat food. I would like to give you something of quality, something that I would be happy to get, and something more personal than a cash donation. I'm thinking kinky items or possibly gourmet nestables. If you are uncomfortable with having a gift shipped to you without knowing what it is then perhaps we could agree upon an item in advance; even though I think it takes away from the joy of getting a gift. I have a few nice things I could think of suggesting, e.g. cuffs or custom made implements.

For me it is not so much that I need to secure a place on The Golden CD-R of Redemption but rather that the joy I get from listing to your podcast makes me want to give something back.

Take good care -The Moral Mango

PS If I'm sounding a little strange it might be because I'm an Aspie-type introvert. But I don't bite, unless it is consensual.

PPS In episode 81 I think it was where you guys were touring The Grand Canyon - those Germans speaking German in the background were actually Danes speaking Danish.

ThornDaddy replied

As for donations, we're touched, but we'd rather not receive a shipment of "marital devices from Denmark".....I don't really want the US Customs Department and the Postal Inspector knocking on my door. As for food, we're set, and food sent overseas can get kinda funny by the time it gets here, also, customs forbids it, in most cases.

With Dollie's upcoming surgery and being off work, cash is most welcome.

I sit corrected on the tourists at the Grand Canyon...but I should have known...they did look a little too healthy and happy for Germans.

Perhaps I should have tried my Danish on them? Unfortunately, the only phrase I can say is "slict mine pict" (probably spelled wrong, but I think they would have understood, but they might have pushed me into the canyon.)

love, art and cats,
TD and DL

(Moral Mango then PayPaled us 100 dollars. ThornDaddy replied: Thank you for our second donation ever, of 100 dollars. If everyone listening did that
once a year, we could quit our jobs and do a podcast every day.

Dollie said, "OMG!!!!!!! I'm totally stunned, amazed, and kinda weepy, lol. I don't know what to think about that!"

Dear Thorn Daddy & Dollie-

i have been listening religiously since October, and just wanted to let you know how much i appreciate your candor into your relationship. As a collared slave, i live vicariously through you Dollie.....well at least the ability to share thoughts and feelings to the rest of the world (from sub/slave point-of-view). i have also listened to the podio-book version of "Diary of an S&M Romance", and it's amazing how it related to my own relationship w/ my Master (how we met)....... And, i would be pleased to write very positive reviews (completed by tonight) on the sites you noted below.

Thank you for the podcasts. i find myself listening to them while working out on the treadmill and now job-hunting on the Internet. Hey that's what this world needs is a kink friendly resume posting site...LOL.

Dollie - hope your shoulder has a speedy recovery!

Ciao,
zelia

Subject: "I Love My Little Bitches"

Hi Dollie and Thorndaddy,

I love how this song sounds. Dollie, your wonderful voice evoked a picture of a magnificent, luxurious domme standing over her little bitches in skimpy clothing waiting to serve. The song's effect was wonderful... I'm looking forward to hearing the whole Podiobook stitched together.

Dollie, I wish you a safe surgery and speedy recovery. Your audience loves you and wants you to get better soon!

-Rachel

PS- loved the ULTRA PORN. Congratulations on 100 episode and may you have many more centennial celebrations.

Love the "MOTHER AND THE FUCKERS" song. Personally, I hear a bit of Siouxsie in there.
--Colonel Kink

Hi ThornDaddy and Dollie!

I have recently completed your "Diary of an S&M Romance" podcast and I wanted to say thank you for sharing your innermost private escapes with me! Even though I am not one that shares the desire for physical pain, (okay…not completely, but maybe a little I do share Dollies need and desire to masculate her..my man, in and out of the bedroom. I believe society today, and women’s need to be “equal’ per se, has indeed left our men in a place where they are unsure of their roles and this in turn has made a generation of “weaker” men. I don't think this is what we had in mind when we demanded equality, well not all of us, anyway.

I very much enjoyed hearing of the subservience of an independent strong woman, but I enjoyed even more the respect and love portrayed through ThornDaddy because of this reverence. Thank you for this.

Much admiration,
Super A Nall

I LOVE the podcast, and I can tell you have a lot of fun doing it. You two are definitely inspirational, and very helpful. And I'll rate and review anything that I can, also. Glad to be of help!

I was looking through iTtunes and playing around with the podcasts, which I had never heard of before. I thought I'd check them out, so I typed in "BDSM", and up popped yours! Ever since, I've been downloading all of the episodes that I can, I love them! They're so wonderful to listen to, and help me pass the time at college while I'm waiting for classes to start.

Anyway...so during one of the episodes I listened to yesterday, the AskDollie.com Website was mentioned, and I knew that I had to check it out. From there I saw the link to your MySpace, and ta da! That's my story.

-Samantha

I am listening to the podcasts as I type. Great stuff, the way you guys discuss things and share information is awesome. And the "Amew" is fucking funny. After I listen to some more I am going to write up a review and post it. I already notified members of our MySpace group.

I was pretty impressed with the fucking on the podcast. A nice unique aspect of the show though. By the way you both have great radio voices.

--Mistral

Hello Dollie,

That sounds a bit silly. I just recently discovered your audiobook and podcast on iTunes. I was deliciously impressed and heard of this site as a result. So I wanted to first say thank you and that I love your unabashed discussions. I know a few budding subs who would benefit from listening to your book. Tell Daddy Hi for me. Thanks for mentioning this site. Perhaps it will help me find a woman I will find fulfilling.

Devout Sinner

My wife was sleeping while I was listening to "SUBMISSION AND COFFEE". Even though I fast forwarded thru the sex noise, she woke up and said that she had a sex-dream from hearing it, and had........an ORGASM!!! Congratulations you two!

--Your number-one fan

Hey ThornDaddy,

u have inspired me in my walk in to being the best dom i can be. i just wanna thank u for the podcasts even though i haven't put anything in ur tip jar as of yet. give my best to dollie. i think the world of u and Dollie. i really consider you to be a mentor of sorts.

i actually brought the book on amazon a few months ago. i even passed it on to my subbie. she finished ur book in 3 days and even took notes in the book for me. we both utilize both the book and podcast as teaching tools for both of us. i think i talk about SAC or askdollie.com 10 times a week! i just think the world of both u. and hope charlie cat is doing well.

johnnybadd
ps. when is penelope coming back to the nest??? she has the second sexiest voice i ever heard. the 1st is dollie of course.

Was wondering when the new book will be out as I didn't see any info on the website, (Diary of an S/m Marriage)?

Thanks bunches, I love listening to your podcasts,
-Master K's pet

ThornDaddy replied:

When the marriage is a little more than a year old! We will probably start writing it next year, will come out in two or three years. We are planning another podiobook soon, a kinky comedy with cats called "The Plump Buffet".

I am listening to the 100th episode! Yay!

Do you guys actually drug the people that come have sex with you? Why would you not want her to remember what happened? Or is it only play? I am confused. Thanks!
--Britt

ThornDaddy replied:

It was play. We read the script describing the plans in the previous episode, and talk often about how drugs have no place in play. And I'm 7 years sober and don't allow drugs in my home.

The game was discussed ahead of time, agreed upon in writing, on a contract, and in e-mail, and in person. The game of the "doctor" "drugging the patient" was part of the fantasy, just allow her to take a more passive role. It worked, and everyone was happy with it.

Paul wrote:

To Whom it May Concern:
I recently came across your podcast series through podcastpickel.com. As a twenty-four year-old graduate student, I enjoy hearing some of the recordings you posted. It is erotic in a "leave it your imagination" type of way. Please, keep up the great work.

(regarding e-mails): I really appreciate you taking time out of your schedule to give me a brief overview and more importantly suggestions on improving my understanding of the lifestyle. I will be listening to your podcasts.

---From a pervert guy

I just wanted to say congrats on the big 100 and OMG! Ultraporn almost caused a heart failure due to blood rushing too rapidly to My cock.
-- Illicit Shane

"Congratulations on your 100th episode. In any forum that is a milestone. Thank you for providing a much-needed public window into the intimate workings of a healthy D/s relationship. The insight and mentoring by example that your program provides is a precious gift to not only the BDSM community but the sexually mature general population as well. Keep up the brilliant work."

--Colonel Kink

Greetings and Merry Meet,

I am currently listening to your podcast via iTunes. Just so you know it is episode 99. I must admit I am loving it so far. You both have very soothing voices, which I am sure you have been told several times. However as I just discovered, there is a downside to listening to your podcast and trying to write, as I just forgot what I was originally going to ask.

Congrats on the book, I just ordered a copy for myself. If I had not just spent the last of my "blow" money on the book I would be donating to the cause. Maybe on my next paycheck. Going to let you go, since my original reason for wtiting is not returning to me,

Blessed Be,

KendraLove

Found your site on a random search, and my partner and I love what we found! I'd say we listened to your podcasts without snickering, but I think you'd be disappointed!! Thanks for a great site for couples. I love the Podiobook too. We're listening to a chapter a night...any more than that, and we'd never sleep. I'd be delighted if you want to read my letter. Drop me a line so I don't miss it, although that's not likely since we're now loyal listeners. You don't have to worry about 'outing' me. I have nothin' to hide. People get too hung up on certain words & phrases. "BDSM" doesn't mean "serial killer".

Thanks for your response...and good luck with the ongoing 'world tour from your bedroom'.

We're both fairly new to the lifestyle, so almost everything on your 'casts is a new experience for us. We're both so grateful that you put yourselves out there the way you do.

--Tracie from Canada

I heard about you guys from the "Sex is Fun" podcsat. So I decided to get your book dollie, and I absolutly LOVE IT! I also am currently listening to the podcast you guys do. I think its wonderful. So I figured I would add you on my MySpace so I hope that you accept my request!

P.S. You guys sound so super freakn sexy ;)
~CherryDimples

Dearest ThornDaddy & Dollie:

I have been a podcast listener of Submission and Coffee for about six months now. I am a listener that listens from beginning to end to your podcasts in my big fluffy, cozy side-chair, vibrator in hand. I love all aspects and do not skip any section of your podcasts. On that topic, I have to say your sexless episode, "Smart Talk for Pretty Sexy People" had me getting myself off more than usual. I think it is because sexy people emanate sex appeal without having to have outright sex....

So anyway, I have determined that Thorndaddy and Dollie ooze sex most definitely!

On another note, I just wanted to tell you, that I am a person that has decided to partake in and mingle with genuine and real people 'cause life is just too short to spend it wasting time with fake, lackluster people that are boring and stamped from a cookie cutter conformist mold. Thus, I let you two into my life each week.

Keep it coming!
--outdolhau

Thread on Bondage.com of people praising the book: Diary of an S&M Romance by Dollie Llama and ThornDaddy

Hello Thorndaddy,

My sub and I have been listening to your S&M Romance book . It's really helped My sub he relates to ur dolly as I do to you and your ways of thinking i dig ur outlook on the S&M way. Anyway nice job.

_Alexis

Regarding the zip archives: Yeah!! I'm so happy you did this. I truly do love the podcast,.....so bad that I realized that the cats in the xmas card were probably the squittens! My time does fly. And I have been meaning to send a "hey Diddy and Dollie" So "Hey" So there!

--Kellygirl

I have Bittorent running, it's uploading and downloading the SAC files.
Do i get my name on The Golden Floppy Disc of Redemption now?

-erin.

Greetings to the happy and slappy couple,

In a previous episode "Master's Honour" mentioned that she listens at work. I do this too, except I work in a cubicle. For the record, I listen to both the chat and the porn parts of the podcast, it's all good. It certainly has helped ease my way through the first weeks of work as I catch up on those podcasts recorded over the Christmas and New-year break. I don't know if I am grateful or disappointed that no-one at work has asked me about what I am listening to. Should anyone ask, I would probably tell them, however it would certainly set chins wagging among the gossip mongers.

In another recent podcast, Dollie mentioned that she is a Heinlein fan. I too credit this amazing author with opening my eyes to many things...

...That's it for me except to say thank you for sharing your lives with the world. Without you I would never have experienced the relief that came when I finally released my Dominant side, nor would Filly have ever found subspace. Oh, and I am pleased to hear that Charlie is recovering well from his Coyote ordeal.

Wishing you both long life and happiness,
Wolf-pup.

Thank you a whole lot...I am enjoying the stories.
--corsetqueen

Listening to your podcasts now... and loving it!!! I'm starting the "Diary of an S&M Romance" Podiobook. My Master and i are still exploring in the world of BDSM and it's so wonderful to have something we can both listen to and discuss. Thanks!!! and i wish you the best!

And yes... my Azrael kitty looks like a mini version of Your Peanut!!! They both have the fluffy tails too!
--FaeriePet

i just wanted to say i just finished listening to your podcast "Diary of An S&M Romance" and i loved it. It really did help. I never knew what was missing from a relationship 'til now.

I wish I had what you have. Maybe someday I'll find it.

Thanks so much for... everything.

Love & Respect.
brie

i loved Diary of an S&M Romance and am waiting (impatiently) for Diary of an S&M Marriage :) i listen to SAC and have gotten my Master to listen to it as well - we both look forward to each new episode.

rowan

Dear ThornDaddy and dollie llama,

Thank You both for sharing Your experiences and lifestyle with the world. i am ever grateful. i related to dollie llama in Your book right from the first chapter. i too played with my dolls in such a way the little girls in my neighborhood refused to play with me. The first time i remember being 'turned on' was before i even understood that there could be a pulsing between my legs, never mind why there was a pulsing between my legs and why was it happening to the show Planet of the Apes when the apes locked the human girls in a cage??

....Master gave me my first ipod this Yule and of course my first search when i found the free podcasts was bondage....and there You were. i have subscribed to Your podcast and look forward to hearing Your every episode! i have a lot of catching up to do. i looked at "Submission and Coffee" first because i loved the name! Sounded like a perfect, comfortable place to hang and chat....about our dirty, lovely obsession!

Thank You,
Master's pet

Thanks ThornDaddy! I love the show, keep up the great job!

I'm listening to your show with the work gloves right now. Even though I'm a new listener I love the show! The intellect and the sex are both great to listen to. I think it's great when you keep talking while Dollie is moaning. Keep up the amazing show.
--Alex

Hello ThornDaddy,

I have enjoyed listening to your and Dollie's podcast for the past few months. For some reason the Grand Canyon trip I still find oddly fascinating. Still need to catch up on the Christmas week and sure I will find more to download when I get to iTunes today.

I will say though, it isn't safe to listen to the 'cast at work. But as I have a private office with self-locking doors. I am not usually bothered and have plenty of warning when masturbating during the show.

I have also listened to the book cast of "Diary of an S&M Romance" and enjoyed it immensely. Reading it just wasn't the same as hearing it!! Much more personal hearing your voices tell it.

Thanks again,
-MastersHonor

obeysorders wrote:

Hi, ThornDaddy and DollieLlama

I discovered your podcast last night and enjoyed it so much. So far I have only listened to one episode, "Tiger Balm and Anal Sex". I can't wait to share it with my Master/husband. We are in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship. We have some protocols, but don't put on any airs (as we say down south) about the "Lifestyle." We just love and take care of each other the way we enjoy, so it was really refreshing to listen to you both just hanging out, eating breakfast with each other, and...enjoying each other.

Have a great day

Happy New Year, Dollie. I really appreciate both Submission and Coffee, and Diary of an S&M romance. Thanks for putting it out there, giving D/s a face of normalcy, which is very important for Noobs like me still testing the waters. Anyhow, I'd just arrived in London from the states and was exhausted, traveling by train to my neighborhood. I brought in the New Year listening to Submission and Coffee. I even had the pleasure of "shocking" a bunch of local guys who asked me what I was listening to. They were all cuties, and for a shy girl like me to be comfortable enough to hand over my mp3 player...it's your wicked influence ;-). Your openness spreads... Happy New Year.

Happy New Year, ThornDaddy. I love Submission and Chocolate (Sic). Thanks for the great podcasts. I probably would never have found mydungeonspace without it.

Best,
Kayanne

Hello Dollie and ThornDaddy,

First, thank you so much for allowing the world into your life. You have definitely made a difference and left a mark.

Now, We just downloaded the podiobook of Dollie's. At the beginning of each episode before she begins to narrate, a sexy track plays before you announce the intended audience. Is that a "Bomb" track of yours or something new? Can we have that instrumental for our collection? We currently put "possibly maybe" on repeat and then zone into each other. I think it would provide a different vibe to have your track on loop and allow it to be the soundtrack to our next session.

Thank you and Dollie again, Bill & Margie (Our "Big Love" names)

ThornDaddy replied:

Bill & Margie,

Glad you like the Podiobook? Have you checked out the podcast? SUBMISSION & COFFEE.

The music on the Podiobook is not my old band, Bomb (Bomb is here: www.hitsofacid.com), it's music I created on my computer just for the Podiobook. Glad you liked it. And thank you for the suggestion to make it available. You can get it by right clicking here: http://www.askdollie.com/SMdiaryPodioBookMusic.mp3.

I encoded it for you as a high-quality (224 k 16-bit 44.1k) stereo MP3. Happy slapping!

You also might want to check out the other tracks I did that are at http://www.askdollie.com/archives.htm
Scroll way down to the "music" section.
--TD

--ThornDaddy

Roy from the UK wrote:

Hello there

Just love the podcasts. They are just so fun and sex up cold morning on the way to work on my ipod.

The latest podcast has appeared in my iTunes and won't download. The only thing I can put it down to is the space in the file name. I bet you are fed up with people asking you to fix the problem when it's itunes that is at fault but if you could find the time between fucking and slapping your lovely slut I would be grateful.

(I promptly fixed the problem and Roy replied):

Thanks for your time in making the podcasts and making sure we all get to listen to them. Take care and I would say have fun but I know your having that already.

--Roy

So I'm the fucker who searched "I love when Dollie Llama and Thorndaddy read search terms!" It was neat to hear that you got the note on air- sort of like a weird shout out from your favorite celebrities.

I do enjoy it. It's not my favorite thing ever, but the weird shit that brings people to the site is pretty funny. It's also funny imagining the vanilla people searching for things like the H2 recorder who happen upon the site.

--rachel

Hey ThornDaddy and Dollie,

I'm Darling Kitty (one of your friends on MDS) - 19 years-old, kinky, submissive, and an avid listener of Submission and Coffee. I am reading Diary of an S&M Romance, and love it!!! I don't think it will ever make it to my bookshelf- I find myself reading it all the time for reference and enjoyment.

I'm totally in love with you guys. The dynamic between you two in your sex and everyday life is so encouraging and relieving. I've been talking to a Daddy online for some time now. Even when I was collared to another Master, we chatted and He amused me, but now I'm able to entertain being His good girl.

I really appreciate the appendix named "Acid Test for Doms". I've only begun my journey down the dark path of BDSM and I've drawn a lot of parallels between the doms that have messaged me and HNGs. I'm a true submissive and have no use wasting my energy or time on them.

So, when my roommates discovered about my interest in BDSM, I found I could be pretty open with them about most things- so I told them about your podcast and showed them your book. As vanilla as they are, they were somewhat turned off by it, but one friend spent 3 hours curled up on the sofa reading "Diary of an S&M Romance". She's into kinky sex, too.

I am anticipating the release of "Diary of an S&M Marriage" and "Diary of an S&M Retirement", so please do not disappoint. I was the first to review S&M diary at chapters.indigo.ca. You can see the review at http://www.chapters.indigo.ca/books/Diary-Romance-Dollie-Llama/9780970539250-306093-Review.html

I also mentioned the podcast in the review, just in case someone happened to stumble across the book details and become intrigued.

For my own part, I wish to thank and continue to acknowledge your excellent persons, talents, and the courage to broadcast them publicly, in a sense. I have learned and grown from your wonderful art. May we all be half as fulfilled as you two appear to be.

~Darling Kitty~
Converting the Vanilla
Newfoundland, Canada

P.S. ThornDaddy's music rocks! I am digging it.

I'm also enjoying the e-book downloads.

Despite the fact that I'm a full-time university student, getting my psychology degree, through ThornDaddy's inspiration and direction, I am finally taking my writing and art to the next level. I've been a "closet-writer" for far too long.

I will also keep your secret superhero identities, just that- secret.

Have a good day

Vanessa P. of Naugatuck, CT listened to "Submission and Coffee", then wrote this:

He coos his praises….
She purrs her obedience…
His control is her sustenance…

She graciously welcomes her spankings ,

Powerless to his onslaught….
“Good girl” …he hisses
Already she is soaked and aching and longing ….
Her splashing wet femininity flooding where she lay….
Melting into his palm….
And coating his fingers with his come hither motion
The passion is cancer,
Spreading …..
Like her lascivious limbs
For him
Lustful damnation of beautiful sin…..
Her urgency captured tightly within his grasp,
Panting ,ecstatic, strangulating cries
sExplosion…

As I listen…
I can hear her drifting to her euphoric dimension…
And soon he advances once more ,
And she welcomes Daddy’s cock
For its her reason for being
And I can hear her waiting….
And feel her wetness
As i drench myself
From listening
Over and over I can hear her release
And him groan his pleasure
Such a wanton abduction
Such as
Daddy’s Seduction....

(Vanessa wanted to send us some of her erotic art and writing.
I told her to send us a drawing of herself listening to SAC and masturbating. She wrote back:
You're an idolized artistically inclined pervert in my eyes. But in any case..you should be expecting something soon from me..
.My inspiration? Probably going to listen to some podcasts of yours and dollie's in order to stir up some creative juices...then let the words and drawing flow.)

"Your Dreams" wrote

I just wanted to express my sincere enjoyment in your attitude and honesty with respect to BDSM. I have been in "the lifestyle" or whatever people call it, for a few years (but before that as long as I can remember lol). I respect your incredible respect and love for each other, and can only hope to achieve something about half as amazing as the two of you have. So, congrats, and yay for you two! You have something that is very hard to find...melding of bodies and minds and spirits. You lucky bastards.

Brokendolly wrote:

hiyas!!

i recently started listening to your podcast! and the one i was listening to today said you and dollie have profiles on MyDungeonSpace, so i thought i'd add you! i havent really done much with this site, but you may have inspired me to come around more!

i have every intention of writing you a real email at some point...maybe several? one of the things i found most intriguing off the bat is that dollie calls you daddy, which is what i call my daddy. our relationship is more age play-oriented (with lotsa kink), but i don't meet too many kinky people who use "daddy" as a title, which makes me sad!

i enjoy your podcast being more of a "day in the life" type of peek into your 24/7 life. i would like to hear more kinky podcasts, but i think that i may just start one of my own someday soon. one that's age play-oriented. we'll see. i'm currently getting involved in podcasting for a project in a class i'm currently taking for my master's degree. i may keep going with it once it's done.

one thing that struck me in the episode i heard today (my apologies for not remembering which one, but it was recent) was that one of the comments someone left on itunes said that your podcast wasn't scenster enough for them. i was happy to hear you say that you guys aren't "in the scene" and also happy about one episode where you were happy not going to a play party, paying lots of money to go somewhere far away to spank dollie, when you can broadcast it to even more people for less money and more fun in the privacy of your own home. that's how we feel too! i'm not a scene whore and i think a lot of folks take "the scene" too seriously. so thank you for being down to earth. :)

thank you both for your podcast! dollie's as sweet as pie, and i think you're both fabulous.

best wishes,
(a different) dolly

'Wolf-Pup' wrote:
Subscribed. Thanks. Will be good to hear it with your voices. If it can help more people know they are not 'weird' or 'deranged', that can only be a good thing. I will be passing the link along to anyone who shows interest. Also thanks for the reference to the ropecast in one of your 'casts too. I'm enjoying that one although I doubt I will ever be able to practice.

Cheers!
'Wolf-Pup'

Rick wrote:
Thanks for keeping me updated on your projects and other things that you guys have been doing. It is very much appreciated. Things have been very busy as of late, with moving, starting school and starting a new relationship, which just happens to be my very first sub. she's great! And it's actually funny that you should send this, because not long after I sent my first e-mail to you, I bought Diary (ordered it from Amazon, the Wal-mart here didn't have it, lol). Took awhile for me to get through it, because I'd have to read in those down moments between everything else, which sucked because it was a good read. I've recommended the book to friends and people I've met since I've started the lifestyle.

I'd also like to take this moment to thank you for writing it. Listening to your podcast and reading your book (along with a couple others that were recommended to me by others in the lifestyle) has really helped me to become the kind of Dom/Master that I had envisioned being when I first set out on this road, not to mention it's helped me to not feel bad about who and what I am. My only regret is that I didn't accept it sooner. But oh well, I've accepted it now and in so doing, I'm now happier than I ever was before, and that, I think, is what counts.

Anyway, keep up the good work. And btw, your music rocks!

someone on Amazon:

I first heard off this book on Dollie and ThornDaddy's podcast, Coffee & Submission (which I highly recommend, btw). At the time, I had just gotten out of a bad relationship and was evaluating my life and what direction I wanted to go in. For years, I've suppressed who and what I truly am, and figured that now was the time to do what I wanted to do, for Myself and not anyone else. In deciding on trying out the lifestyle, I decided to start doing research, which led me to the podcast. These two people genuinely love and care for each other, and were doing the things I'd only dreamt of in fantasies I'd kept hidden all my life since I was a young child. They showed me that you could have that deep, meaningful love, and still be accepted for the "darker" parts of oneself. This gave me hope, and when I found out about this book, I decided to buy it.

This book was surprising in its honesty, openness and its genuineness. As these two fell in love with each other, I felt myself falling in love with them, as you would in any well written book. They showed that the stereotypical bdsm couple was anything but. However, as good as their story is, I found a bonus in the information that they provided, that gave insight and helpful tips and hints.

Ultimately, what this book gave me was a good example of what living that life could be, and gave me the courage to go ahead and pursue it. I recommend it for everyone, not just those in the lifestyle or looking to possibly enter it.

Erin wrote:
"Diary of an S&M Romance" is an honest look into a real relationship between a Husband and wife living as a Master/slave couple in the early stages of their relationship. Equals in intellect and personality, but Master/slave in all other aspects, ThornDaddy and Dollie Llama paint a realistic picture of the struggle to fit D/s into everyday life. Dollie is a strong woman, leaving no doubt that feminism and slavery CAN go hand in hand, if the mindset is right. The romance in the title is right, since the two of them can be sweet, if not overly so, but their love for one another is evident in every email exchange which makes up the majority of the book. Terms that a beginner may not understand are explained perfectly and succinctly by Dollie, making this book a must-own for anyone wanting to explore their submissive side, or for Dominants wanting to understand the power that they hold...

I can't say enough about this book. I couldn't put it down. I read it front to back the minute i got it. I laughed and cried at the cute, loving couple and her emotional journey. The thing about them is that they truly complete each other. She is genuinely happy to serve Him and He, in turn, loves to beat her "with love" as He says. if you've read this book, you definately NEED to go on iTunes and subscribe to their podcast "Submission and Coffee" and hear the way these Two speak to each other. They've been called the "Rob and Laura Petrie" of D/s and this is correct. After reading this, and listening to them, you will never think of "Bondage people" the same way again. They might be living right next to you! I am proud to call both of them friends, and hope to for a long time!

here ya go! and BTW...you two have done some great casts lately...very hot! although it *is* a little weird getting off to two friends having sex...but i'll go with it :)

Hellooooo,

Just writing in to tell you I enjoy the show. I am also in a married/master/slave relationship. We are also cat owners, but I must admit, they are HERS. Not that I hate cats or anything, it's just that they are lower on my list of favorite pets. Never-the-less, pet the fur balls for me, and I suppose Daddy could have Dollie pet his balls while she's at it.

Great show guys. It's uplifting (no pun) to listen to the little gems of your lives.

--Chip

"Thanks for the cast, I enjoy it."

--Zaroc

Speechless!

I love this cast as much as I love food, and that is saying a lot. This podcast is a living, breathing relationship of two people who love each other very much. To anyone who is interested in the BDSM scene, this is it! BUY THE BOOK TOO! Diary of an S&M Romance! Podiobook!

--beautifulwhore89

U are a God Mr. ThornDaddy !!! U rock ! Dollie rox!

--vanessa

Dear You Awesome Podcasters You,

I have been listening to you two for several months, and I thoroughly enjoy the relaxed quality of your topics. I don't doubt that you've been told several times that you two have what every dominant and submissive are looking for, that perfect mesh of life and spontaneity that trials, tribulation, and time, polish to be a well hewn thing of beauty. Again, I love listening to your podcast, and I look forward to many many, many more long future episodes. Ciao for now.

Sincerely,
Paul W.

Re: "Dollie Christ Superstar"! Dig it. Naughty boy and gurl!!!!:) Love is cuntageous, like a tiger will bite.

Slap!

--Cork Black

Wow...loved "Dollie Christ Superstar"! You reveal more talent each and every time i hear you guys! And the 2008 site redesign looks great! Can't wait to listen to the new SAC on my way to work, to make the commute much more bearable!
Hope your X-mas was wonderful....

--erin

Keep up the good work with the podcast and everything else you two keep me going all the time.

--That Rope Guy

I especially love the ink peeking out from dollie's cleavage. Very nice! wish I could see more.

I am nearly done with the book. It's actually fast reading but I tend to read it only when I am getting pedicures and at this time I am only doing that once a month. But I AM quite enjoying it.

Have a happy New Year!
Evil Oreo

dollie,

i am an uncollared sub from Mississippi. i am still seeking. i have gotten to listening to your podcast. i am in love with it. Congrats on your nastiversary. It is nice to see 2 people so in love with each other and i am glad there is someone out there showing that the lifestyle is not abusive by any means.

angela

dollie,

I hope I have the right address. I love your podcast! I remember the first time I heard it, it was after I listened to the SM Diary podiobook, which I loved. I stayed up to at least 5 am listening to it, I wanted to finish it immediately. Back to the podcast- I remember I clicked on some old episode and I was shocked, I think it was the one that ThornDaddy put your love making at the beginning and I had no idea it was coming. I listened to the intro, waiting for an educational BDSM podcast and one of the first things I heard was "That was a righteous blowjob baby." I was blown away, no pun intended.

I couldn't wait to hear them all. I am an 18-year-old college student, interested in the BDSM life. I have never experienced a beating or anything, but it all turns me on.

I actually wanted to ask you a question. I have a boyfriend and I have this urge to call him Daddy. I don't know if he would like that. How do you think I should try it out, just randomly call him Daddy, wait until we have sex? I would appreciate your advice. Thank you!

Please continue to make your inspiring podcast!

Sincerely,

Britt

Thanks for your great podcast!! It is one of the finest I know and always good fun to listen to!

--Nemissimo

I love your Diary of a S&M relationship podcast. Once I started listening I couldn't stop, and have recommended it to several people. Thank you for so honestly sharing all the nooks and crannies of your lives.

I found the podcast of the book on iTunes; go fuckin' figure! It's the end of the world and I'm diggin' it. I also heard you say the Web address on the podcast, and I've already visited, and will do so again and again until I get it right. Thanks for writing me back. I feel like I just got a letter from Elvis or something. You're a God.

The detailed descriptions of the pain, pleasurable and non, the joy, the exultation, the tears, the growth, the insane sex, the intense communication all confirm what I've discovered about the BDSM lifestyle. Those that engage in BDSM in a safe, sane and consensual manner are the most spiritual and emotionally healthy people out there.

I sit at my office job in front of my computer pecking away, iPod headphones in, surrounded by coworkers who ask me why I'm smiling after I've just listened to a description of dollie eating frozen spermpops. You guys are rock gods.

--MargaritasMaster

First of all I want to thank ThornDaddy for making your podcast happen. Secondly, I want to thank ThornDaddy for all the audio-geek stuff he adds to the podcast. I have learned a lot. If other podcasters were as skilled in the medium, podcasting would already be the new TV.

Dollie. So submissive and so smart. You don’t know it but you are passively helping to serve as my litmus test of a good submissive. I had to give up the lifestyle (life happens) but having you chatting and moaning in my ear hole has made my content in my newly rediscovered vanilla life.

And ThornDaddy, of COURSE the wannadoms hit on your girl, she’s MILF-elious and they all live in their moms' basement, even though they're 40. They can’t help it.

Feel free to share this with your followers (both Lamb and Ram). I would like to restate that I really appreciate you – both of you – putting yourselves out. It is great performance art (and brilliant self-promotion) but more importantly it's something will help more people see that happiness isn’t hard to find – but it does take bravery.

Keep up the good work, --CF

Once I started, I couldn't quit listening. What an amazing romance and relationship. As one of the most vanilla people you could ever meet, I learned a tremendous amount about not only BDSM but what relationships should and shouldn't be. I learned not to pigeon-hole anyone into something that I don't necessarily understand and know about. I learned how not to judge anyone based on how they manifest their love. I almost felt stupid for holding on to some of my previous beliefs. Congratulations to you both on finding each other and living out loud. It's very hard for the average vanilla Joe to do, let alone someone with such interests. I'm happy for you.

Be Well,
Ken

ThornDaddy and dollie:

Hey there, I've just finished reading the first chapter and THAT is one lady I'm really happy for! My romantic softspot enjoyed her story so far, and will look forward to the rest. I've only started wrapping my head around BDSM about 2 years ago, even though I'd been around it for a while and had a notion about the mechanics in a way. I met Dark Lady a few months ago and have been checking out her Yahoo group The Dark Atrium. Call it continuing education or extracurricular activities, I guess.

Thanks again, Chandra

....That is all the news for now, thank you for sharing your talents and art with the rest of us. Though we have never really met, I think of you guys as friends. Maybe someday we will get to meet. But if not, you have still enriched our lives, and we hope in some little way to have enriched yours."

I have introduced your podcast to several people, including everyone in my house, onto the cast, including my adult daughter. Also including a young man who sent me an unsolicited IM, telling me how he could be the Dom of my dreams.... and not understanding that "no, I'm collared and married" really means NO. So I suggested he go listen to you guys for a while and perhaps get a clue. :)

--marion, House of Reason.

Dollie - Just sending you a message to let you know I absolutely adore your podcast. I've begun listening to your book through a podiocast and am finding it interesting, well written and I'd like to let you know you did an excellent job making it feel more like a conversation with the reader than an elaborate monologue.

It's so great to have people coming out more publicly in the kinky community, especially ones who have real opinions and express them in an educated manner.

Kisses and Chaos
Amber in Pennsylvania

Go back to SUBMISSION AND COFFFEE! (must be of legal age)

OR GO TO:

Our "bedcasting" setup:

Daddy's power conditioner: